What should I do if someone of the same sex hits on you? It's happened before. Many know my position on homosexual marriage. However, I wonder what the proper way would be to reject someone of the same sex, if they are "in love" with me.
Do I turn them down gently. Letting them know I am most assuredly only attracted to men. I have never had feelings for the opposite sex, so I can't know how my rejection will hurt her.
Is there anyone out there, who is openly gay, who knows how to say "no" without insulting their preference? I don't want my mind to be raped either.
Do I turn them down gently. Letting them know I am most assuredly only attracted to men. I have never had feelings for the opposite sex, so I can't know how my rejection will hurt her.
Is there anyone out there, who is openly gay, who knows how to say "no" without insulting their preference? I don't want my mind to be raped either.
1 comment:
the less said the better, i think. a long explanation just makes things more awkward. if you really don't want to offend, don't think of it as a same-sex attraction at all, just think of it as a person attracted to another person, who isn't into them. because really? that's all it is. simply saying, "no, i'm sorry, i don't feel the same way" is completely acceptable.
also, mind raped? outside of science fiction, that doesn't really happen.
- anne
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